Feng Shui Relationships often start with the all important dating process. This timeless ritual is a very necessary practice required to obtain and achieve the appropriate outcome for any individual seeking union with another.
Whether we are willing to admit it or not, most of us want to share our lives with someone. Often our idealized goals seem very hard to achieve and for this reason individuals give up on themselves and their personal dreams. As time marches on, people unknowingly train themselves to believe that perhaps happiness with another is not in the proverbial cards.
This is simply not true!
So let's make believe you really want to be in a healthy long lasting Feng Shui Relationship with someone. First, let's pray you are not, for a number of reasons, emotionally unavailable, otherwise this entire process may become quite challenging.
In order to achieve dating success, we are going to strive to enhance the positive and attempt to rid ourselves and others of negatives through the use of Feng Shui principles. Let's look at some tools of the trade, so to speak, which may help you achieve the Feng Shui Relationship of your dreams.
I will first list the desired outcomes needed to have a meaningful and lasting Feng Shui Relationship. These outcomes include: Healthy and Open Communication, Feeling and Expressing Emotions and Eliminating Negative Feelings and Argumentation.
Once these outcomes are identified I will address various Feng Shui Crystals and Stones which are effective tools used as cures to boost positive aspects within ourselves and our prospective mates.
In most cases, you will be able to wear these stones on your bodies as jewelry or carry them with you in a draw string pouch.
Healthy and Open Communication
Rutilated Quartz is the best crystal to promote clear thinking and communication. This stone is clear in nature and has strands or lines inside of it with a copper hue. If you are having problems in getting your mate to open up and/or expressing themselves try to give them this stone as a gift.
Expressing and Feeling Emotions
A piece of polished Rose Quartz will do the job just fine as it promotes the opening of the Heart Chakra. Men usually have difficulty with their emotions so you might want to put this in a pouch as you probably will feel that quite a few stones will be needed to bring him around to your way of seeing things.
Eliminating Negative Feelings and Argumentation
Many Feng Shui Crystals and Stones will aid in reducing negative energies resulting in arguments. However, I am going to address the two that have the most powerful effect in transforming negative emotions and thoughts.
The first stone is Black Obsidian because it does a wonderful job of removing negative thought patterns. If someone has a negative outlook on life they are more likely to be out of sync with others and create disturbances which will result in arguments.
The second stone is Black Tourmaline because it is excellent for getting rid of negative emotions which are essentially rooted in fear around commitment. Black Tourmaline will help the wearer to relax through giving experiences if it is worn on a regular basis.
Wearing The Stones
So now we have a couple of stones but how do we get your perspective heart throb to wear them? I think the best thing to do is to put a couple of the desired stones in a small draw string pouch and have your partner carry it in their pocket. If they are not open to this they can tie the pouch under the bed where they sleep at night and it will create the same results while they are at rest.
Well then there you have it! What are you waiting for? Time is a wasting! Purchase the appropriate stones today, along with a draw string pouch, so you can begin to have that special Feng Shui Relationship of your dreams.
Namaste,
San Dan Yi