Feng Shui Relationships and Mending a Broken Heart

Feng Shui Relationships do not always have fairy tale endings. When an individual suffers from a broken heart he or she must strive to take action before negative emotions and thought patterns begin to take hold, making it difficult for the person to experience new, more positive and healthy Feng Shui Relationships. In fact, holding on to old experiences, which may not even be valid, will usually only set you up to repeat the same cycle of despair. Soon enough you will be murmuring to yourself, "Why did this happen to me?" and "Why do I always meet the wrong person?" The responsibility to the self and more importantly your soul is to remain positive during difficult times and to maintain the intention of bettering yourself and others around you. It's a difficult task to be sure, but in the long run it will pay off and you will find yourself surrounded by others who bring you happiness and joy. This positive attitude will also help you to distinguish between people of integrity, honesty and love and those who embrace the negative and dysfunctional qualities of "The Dark Side". Feng Shui Relationships always focus on the available tools which will help us to let go of the negative and embrace the positive. Once you embrace a positive mode of thinking and become surrounded by a nurturing environment, you will automatically attract a new and more compatible partner. In order for this process to begin, you must take the following steps to ensure you make a clean break from your current emotional condition and lay a sound positive foundation for your romantic future, so your heart does not get broken again. Forgive Yourself for Making a Poor Choice The first crystal for forgiveness is the Amethyst. The Chi (energy or life force) from this stone will enable you to heal your heart and emotions from a soul level. When you work with this stone you will feel more nurtured and less "beat up" emotionally. This stone also accelerates your ability to forgive. Regain Trust in Yourself and Others Initially, it may be difficult to enter into a new Feng Shui Relationship because you are bringing along the some old tattered baggage remaining from the experiences of your previous relationship. Throw that old stuff away! A new mate and prospective lover will most likely be turned off by this tendency because they will want to be accepted or rejected based upon their own merits. Lack of trust will also lead you further down a path towards a state of emotional unavailability. Once you become detached from others, your romantic life will become even more challenging and you will further distance yourself from the Feng Shui Relationship you desire. Rose Quarts is the best choice for opening the heart chakra and permitting you to allow in new love. Use of the crystal will help you regain trust in yourself and your ability to make sound, healthy decisions. Once you strengthen your self-esteem you will become less suspicious and less inclined to place false judgment upon others. No longer will you feel the need to make statements like, "Where were you?" and "Why didn't you call me?" Your new relationship will have a new found confidence based upon love, trust and integrity. Your Vision of the Ideal Relationship Must Be Totally Clear Having a clear mindset is necessary to properly map out and focus your mental thoughts toward manifesting the relationship you desire. If you permit your mind to be filled with frustration, anger or any sense of diminished self worth, you will become susceptible to attracting well intentioned, but emotionally unavailable, partners into your life. The Tigers Eye is my first choice for creating a singular focus. However, I also strongly recommend any crystal in the clear quartz family because they will help keep your mind well tuned to your desired goal. How Do You Wear Your Stones? By now, you must be wondering how is it possible to wear so many stones and where should they be worn? Would I share all this information with you and leave you in a lurch? Of course not! Simply put the selected Feng Shui stones in a red velvet pull pouch and then place the pouch in your pocket, pocketbook or briefcase. The pouch will help to regulate your emotions and thought patterns during the work day. When you come home at night you will need to place the stones on the night stand next to your bed so they can assist you through your period of rest. Namaste, San Dan Yi