Feng Shui Crystals have a wide range of uses including the ability to help you deal with difficult in-laws. Stibnite, sometimes called Antimonite, is a wonderful opaque colored Crystal often used by Feng Shui Practitioners as a remedy to remove negative thought patterns. So, if you are having trouble with your in-laws try exposing them to this fabulous and largely unknown Feng Shui Crystal. You might be surprised by its effectiveness and no longer will you have to be stressed out when you invite your spouse's parents over for dinner or a holiday get-together. Stibnite's Appearance Stibnite's appearance is quite dramatic. It is striated vertically with soft, black streaks and has a brilliant, metallic luster. Its color ranges from lead gray to black and at times it is known to attract a bit of attention by those who have never experienced the unique and lustrous pattern of its jasperoid matrix.

Stibnite's Placement In general, I feel the best place to put a piece of Stibnite Crystal is in the living room because this is the area of the home where most families tend to congregate and keep their family photographs. Feng Shui Principles also believe the living room represents our loved ones, so there is a good chance your in-laws will be spending a lot of their time in this room when they come over to visit. Try putting the piece of Stibnite on an end table or coffee table. It is best not to discuss with anyone what this stone does as non-well wishing in-laws, bent on creating relationship problems for you, will only resist what the stone does naturally. Remember, Stibnite has powerful abilities to disarm both negative people and people who do not think of you in a positive light. So, let's try to maximize your in-law's exposure to this Feng Shui Crystal and in a relatively short period of time, you will be removed from any negative thought forms that are put upon you and the pressure it can cause in your relationships. Also, many in-law relationship problems have a negative effect on the children of the household. These negative situations cause high levels of stress for all parties involved. Exposure to Stibnite will help you not to be negative when speaking about your in-laws while children are present. Stibnite as a Peace Offering You may also consider giving this Feng Shui Crystal as a gift to your in-laws. The longer someone is exposed to the crystal's energy the more likely they will improve their behavior. Stibnite will disarm their negative thinking processes and if exposed to it long enough they will start to examine their motives on a deeper level. This period of self reflection will in turn eventually lead them to have more positive thoughts towards you. This is not to say that all in laws are difficult. If you happen to be one of the unfortunate people who have difficulty in your personal relationships, due to negativity emanating from your family or your mate's family, you will find this stone to be a powerful ally in your quest to have a happy and productive marriage. Now you can stop thinking about moving far away from your in-laws, like so many couples consider, when faced with this specific challenge to their personal happiness. Your difficult in-laws will become a thing of the past when you introduce this wonderful Feng Shui Product into your household. Namaste, San Dan Yi